Category Archives: Pain

Grief Is Simply Love With Nowhere To Go

Man, it’s hard to go anywhere without thinking about Di.  I don’t cry as often anymore and it usually happens unexpectedly.  But I do and will for awhile because I miss her so much.  The feelings I have for her won’t go … Continue reading

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Was ist los?

( trans.  What is this?  What’s happening? ) This will be a shortie.  It seems the pain in my shoulder has returned and I understand why.  To determine the cause, I type in my symptoms ( that’s too easy – … Continue reading

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Put The Lime In The Coconut and Call Me in the Morning

First, allow me to thank those of you who expressed your concern about my “injury”.  It’s nice to know you’re there.  Thank you. I was at the doctor’s office not long after I posted the news of my hiatus.  A … Continue reading

Posted in Healing, Hospital, Kindness, Life, Me, Musings, My Love, Nurse, Pain, Ramblings, Single, Thoughts, Women, Writing | 2 Comments

Happy Anniversary, I Think

Today is the second anniversary of my divorce.  I can remember that day, standing with my ex- in front of the judge, watching almost twenty years of a relationship disappear in a heartbeat.  I remember wandering through downtown, just walking … Continue reading

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Reach Out And Touch Somebody’s Hand

I learned something about the human spirit yesterday.  I’m certain that challenges such as this are presented for a reason. I was in need of cash and pulled into the credit union to use the ATM.  As I parked my … Continue reading

Posted in Choices, Connected, Cosmic Dope Slap, Discovery, Getting Outside The Box, Heavy Thoughts, Life, Love, Me, My Father, Pain, Questions, Ramblings, Reflections, Sadness, Things That Make You Go Hmmmmm, Watching, Writing | 5 Comments

Head Up, Heart Open

We all have epiphanies.  They are the reminders from The Universe,  that reveal to us those things that need our attention.  Sometimes it’s a simple solution to a challenge, other times it’s that Cosmic Dope Slap we need now and … Continue reading

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Please, Mr. Postman

The pain of a break-up is like a papercut:  it hurts like hell for awhile and takes longer to heal than you think.    That pain has subsided significantly over the past week.  After driving myself crazy last week, I decided … Continue reading

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