Comments for Scenes From Inside a Middle-Aged Head http://megawfa79.wordpress.com It's an outlet..somewhere to put the stuff clogging my brain Sat, 14 Nov 2009 11:42:14 +0000 http://wordpress.com/ hourly 1 Comment on Everybody’s Got Something To Hide ‘Cept For Me and My Monkey by megawfa79 http://megawfa79.wordpress.com/2009/11/13/everybodys-got-something-to-hide-cept-for-me-and-my-monkey/#comment-154 megawfa79 Sat, 14 Nov 2009 11:42:14 +0000 http://megawfa79.wordpress.com/?p=427#comment-154 thanks, Virginia. I am my own worst enemy. Some of what I'm experiencing I bring upon myself. I love this woman with all my heart, but I can't understand why she's doing this. On one level, I usderstand her actions. She is alot like me and, at times, can't seem to get out of her own way. Thanks for the suggestons for reading. I'll see if I can find him at the library. thanks, Virginia. I am my own worst enemy. Some of what I’m experiencing I bring upon myself. I love this woman with all my heart, but I can’t understand why she’s doing this. On one level, I usderstand her actions. She is alot like me and, at times, can’t seem to get out of her own way. Thanks for the suggestons for reading. I’ll see if I can find him at the library.

]]> Comment on Everybody’s Got Something To Hide ‘Cept For Me and My Monkey by Virginia Gruver http://megawfa79.wordpress.com/2009/11/13/everybodys-got-something-to-hide-cept-for-me-and-my-monkey/#comment-153 Virginia Gruver Sat, 14 Nov 2009 04:48:30 +0000 http://megawfa79.wordpress.com/?p=427#comment-153 I'm reading Robert B. Parker's Jesse Stone series. If you haven't read them, they also made a few movies about the books. Don't mean to be disrespectful. Not really even sure why I'm mentioning it but you seem like a nice guy and it's strange but you seem to be living a life similar to this character's life. He is divorsed from the love of his life and can't go on. He's immersed himself in booze to cope. I love the series but that part of it drives me nuts. I want to see this character be happy but he seems to keep getting drawn into this woman's life and she can't seem to decide what she wants. So confusing and so sad. I am reading the fourth in the series so not sure where the character arc is going yet but I truly want to see him resolve this issue so he can be happy. I'd like to see the same for you. I’m reading Robert B. Parker’s Jesse Stone series. If you haven’t read them, they also made a few movies about the books. Don’t mean to be disrespectful. Not really even sure why I’m mentioning it but you seem like a nice guy and it’s strange but you seem to be living a life similar to this character’s life. He is divorsed from the love of his life and can’t go on. He’s immersed himself in booze to cope. I love the series but that part of it drives me nuts. I want to see this character be happy but he seems to keep getting drawn into this woman’s life and she can’t seem to decide what she wants. So confusing and so sad. I am reading the fourth in the series so not sure where the character arc is going yet but I truly want to see him resolve this issue so he can be happy. I’d like to see the same for you.

]]> Comment on I Haven’t Got Time by megawfa79 http://megawfa79.wordpress.com/2009/11/12/i-havent-got-time/#comment-152 megawfa79 Fri, 13 Nov 2009 16:18:27 +0000 http://megawfa79.wordpress.com/?p=424#comment-152 thank you and I appreciate your concern. I'm gonna check out for awhile. Not sure when I'll post again. thank you and I appreciate your concern. I’m gonna check out for awhile. Not sure when I’ll post again.

]]> Comment on I Haven’t Got Time by Marge http://megawfa79.wordpress.com/2009/11/12/i-havent-got-time/#comment-151 Marge Thu, 12 Nov 2009 22:16:40 +0000 http://megawfa79.wordpress.com/?p=424#comment-151 is there anything like a singles club where you live? is there any other social places where you can meet people who have either been in a situation like yours or are able to listen to you? Do you go to church? Do you pray? Would you consider going to church and talking to a minister or priest? Unless your love is willing to answer the above questions you probably will never know the answers. I know, it doesn't help at all. As I have told you before it is sixteen years since the man I consider to be my soul mate broke up with me and although it isn't as intense or as painful as what you are going through, it still hurts if I think about it. Basically his leaving me said to me "You aren't good enough" and that is a hard thing to take. Still is hard to take sixteen years later. I will pray for you :) good luck! is there anything like a singles club where you live?
is there any other social places where you can meet people who have either been in a situation like yours or are able to listen to you?
Do you go to church?
Do you pray?
Would you consider going to church and talking to a minister or priest?
Unless your love is willing to answer the above questions you probably will never know the answers.
I know, it doesn’t help at all.

As I have told you before it is sixteen years since the man I consider to be my soul mate broke up with me and although it isn’t as intense or as painful as what you are going through, it still hurts if I think about it.

Basically his leaving me said to me “You aren’t good enough” and that is a hard thing to take.
Still is hard to take sixteen years later.

I will pray for you
:)
good luck!

]]> Comment on You Are Here by megawfa79 http://megawfa79.wordpress.com/2009/11/10/415/#comment-150 megawfa79 Wed, 11 Nov 2009 13:15:58 +0000 http://megawfa79.wordpress.com/?p=415#comment-150 Yes, she does have issues. I've known about them for awhile now. She did expect more, but from herself. Yes, she does have issues. I’ve known about them for awhile now. She did expect more, but from herself.

]]> Comment on You Are Here by maggiemsp http://megawfa79.wordpress.com/2009/11/10/415/#comment-149 maggiemsp Wed, 11 Nov 2009 03:38:58 +0000 http://megawfa79.wordpress.com/?p=415#comment-149 being frightened would mean being scared and I'm guessing being scared of being stuck, would be she wanted more or expected more? and maybe was scared of another relationship not working out? I'm not trying to criticize her, but it sounds like she has some issues herself. hope that doesn't upset you, just my thinking out loud. :) being frightened would mean being scared
and I’m guessing being scared of being stuck, would be she wanted more or expected more? and maybe was scared of another relationship not working out?
I’m not trying to criticize her, but it sounds like she has some issues herself.
hope that doesn’t upset you, just my thinking out loud.
:)

]]> Comment on …And Now Here’s Something We Hope You’ll Really Like by megawfa79 http://megawfa79.wordpress.com/2009/11/07/and-now-heres-something-we-hope-youll-really-like/#comment-148 megawfa79 Sun, 08 Nov 2009 16:36:29 +0000 http://megawfa79.wordpress.com/?p=409#comment-148 Thank you. I only wish that more readers would pass on comments. I wonder how many are going through similar experiences. But I do appreciate your comments and suggestions. Thank you. I only wish that more readers would pass on comments. I wonder how many are going through similar experiences. But I do appreciate your comments and suggestions.

]]> Comment on …And Now Here’s Something We Hope You’ll Really Like by maggiemsp http://megawfa79.wordpress.com/2009/11/07/and-now-heres-something-we-hope-youll-really-like/#comment-147 maggiemsp Sun, 08 Nov 2009 02:53:14 +0000 http://megawfa79.wordpress.com/?p=409#comment-147 my youngest grand child's birthday is today, November 8th. she is one. :) thanks for writing. my youngest grand child’s birthday is today, November 8th.
she is one.
:)
thanks for writing.

]]> Comment on No Cute Or Catchy Title This Time by maggiemsp http://megawfa79.wordpress.com/2009/11/04/406/#comment-146 maggiemsp Fri, 06 Nov 2009 22:34:44 +0000 http://megawfa79.wordpress.com/?p=406#comment-146 okay I'm not liking you working so much because you aren't writing on your blog site!!!! :) okay I’m not liking you working so much because you aren’t writing on your blog site!!!!
:)

]]> Comment on No Cute Or Catchy Title This Time by maggiemsp http://megawfa79.wordpress.com/2009/11/04/406/#comment-145 maggiemsp Wed, 04 Nov 2009 21:58:30 +0000 http://megawfa79.wordpress.com/?p=406#comment-145 it will happen. I think you are getting better just by reading what you are writing now compared to what you were writing a few weeks ago. :) it will happen.
I think you are getting better just by reading what you are writing now compared to what you were writing a few weeks ago.
:)

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